Why YOU are Important!
This is not about you being unique (you are). It is about how you relate to yourself and how that matters. It is hard to see and hear the way [...]
When You Start Believing the World – Read This! Immediately!
It doesn’t matter if someone else things you are useless or inadequate. Really, it doesn’t! What matters is what you think! You probably haven’t been taught to override someone else’s [...]
Find Your Dare – Create Anything
This is the title of my soon to be presented TEDxSoweto talk and it inspired me so much I took the structure and turned it into an essay. Something that [...]
Before you can live a life you love have to…
Let go of being normal. Let go of fitting in. Accept your essential weirdness and accept that doing something new and different takes you outside of the tribe. Tribes hate [...]
Finding Ways to Let the Past Stay in the Past
This started as a quick reminder on my Facebook page. “It is fun and feels natural and normal to talk about what happened and why. But by bringing the past [...]
Why you Can’t be Given Authority or Leadership aka, Finding that Missing x-Factor
I was tasked with managing a new resource at work! This is an exciting event because I get to share my expertise and at the same time, create space for [...]
What Would It Take to Love The Life/Job You Have ?
We spend so much time waiting for a specific event to happen, then we will be happy, then things will be fine and you will relax. So, has that happened [...]
Things I Refuse to Accept
I refuse to accept…that I am not enough and so I can’t! I refuse to accept…that I need to an organisation or body or person, no matter how prestigious or [...]
When People Are the Problem!
One of the biggest stumbling blocks reaching 221 meters was the fact that I needed a team. To get a team I needed to convince people to believe that I [...]
Wanna Give Up ? All Hope Gone ?
Some days hope is hard to find. Yes! I am living one of those days. I don’t enjoy this part of the process and sometimes I wonder if it really [...]